I really wonder... how can someone be so childish... so immature... so unreasonable...

Y does people always blame others for everything that happen to them when it has nth to do with the person...

Y can't you just think through about your own action and stop blaming others for the first time... it is u yourself who wanted to be in this position... nobody forces u to be... so shouldn't u stop pushing the blame of what u became to other people? Shouldn't u just grow up for once? You should be happy for her that she met someone that suits her... and not keep on saying that she is the one who made you become who you are now... You are just making people around you worry about you... Just grow up for once for goodness sake...